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Mastering the Art of Detecting Deception: Insights from Deepak Malhotra
Deepak Malhotra, a renowned negotiation expert and professor at Harvard Business School, has identified key strategies for spotting liars that challenge conventional wisdom.
While many people focus on non-verbal cues like body language, Malhotra’s research highlights that verbal cues are often more reliable indicators of deception.
Liars tend to over-explain, provide unsolicited details, or offer vague responses that don’t directly answer the question at hand.
Inconsistencies in their stories—changes in details or contradictions—are red flags that something might not add up.
Malhotra also emphasizes the importance of context; understanding why someone might lie in a given situation can provide critical insight into their behavior.
Some strategies I found for spotting liars involve closely analyzing verbal communication and context.
Liars often use vague language to create distance from their lies. An example would be that man instead of his name. This kind of distancing can signal evasion.
Pay close attention to inconsistencies in their story. Asking direct questions can help uncover the truth. For instance, ask, “What exactly happened during that meeting?” or “Can you explain how you handled that task?” These questions require specific details. Liars find it harder to provide accurate answers, making it easier to detect deception.
So, keep an eye out for these verbal cues and inconsistencies. Being aware of these tactics can help you spot deception more effectively and navigate conversations with greater confidence.